She lost the babies. I feel so much sadder than I think I would have if this had been easy for me from the start, but at this point my emotions so so so don’t matter so I’m just trying to be as supportive as I can from 1000 miles away.
I’ve sent flowers and let her know that we are here for whatever they need. She said she didn’t want sympathy and just wants to try and stay upbeat. I encouraged her to let herself grieve but I didn’t want to be pushy.
This is not a territory I’ve been in before and I’m not sure what more to do. I’m open to suggestions.